The complaints about TRO are ridiculous at this point. Wanting child care and full gyms? Food perks. When you worked at dell you adjusted your life to work there before remote work. For hybrids you might have to adjust again, No big deal.
Raise your kids and stop expecting others too, pack your lunch (or cook!) or stop by a restaurant and pull that credit card out the same as you do when you shop for yourself on the weekends.
Stop acting like you're owed something in life. You're not. You get a paycheck. If you don't like Dell, leave.