https://www.usinflationcalculator.com/
Determine your real income versus historical pay. Its very likely your income has moved a lot less than you imagined. I'm posting this because many people's brains don't automatically adjust for inflation and they compare their historical unadjusted pay to today's pay and think they've made progress in their wage growth.
Another thing to point out is if you're SF, your career growth is dead. Salaries are high, talent as well, but Charlie isn't looking to pay for it and will abuse you and offer up no career growth. You're much better going to fintech or changing industries all together if possible. You and great team could create a company valued more than wells fargo.