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Eight Bully Types

This list is more or less a cut and paste off the internet with some editing made.

Have you experienced any of these bully types?

Is there anymore you want to add?

Got any advice for anyone reading this that may be currently experiencing any of these types of coworkers and bosses?

#1 The Disruptive Loudmouth

This is the most easily recognizable type of workplace bully. They are loud and obnoxious, and their abusive behaviour is meant to berate and humiliate you. They thrive on the notion that others fear them. These types tend to avoid written communication like emails and chat to have plausible deniability a verbal convo gives them. This type also loves to converse using speaker phone in an inappropriate setting like a shared cubicle office space to be as disruptive as possible to you and others.

#2 The Gossiping Two-Headed Snake

To your face, this employee acts like a trusted friend, colleague or leader. However, when you are out of earshot, this person will try to destroy your reputation, stab you in the back and even take credit for your work or make your good ideas theirs.

#3 The Constant Critic

This bully’s goal is to dismantle your confidence through constant – and often unwarranted – criticism. A critic will look for any possible flaw in your work and labours tirelessly to ki-l your credibility. Impeccable work? No problem: This type of bully isn’t above falsifying documents or fabricating evidence to make you look bad. This bully type may even try to manipulate others to criticise their target and do their dirty work for them.

#4 The Gatekeeper

Every office has at least one employee who gets off on wielding his or her power over others – regardless of whether that power is real or perceived. Gatekeepers will deny you the tools you need – whether it’s resources, time or information – to do your job efficiently.

#5 The Attention Seeker

This type of bully wants to be the centre of the action at all times. They’ll try to get on their superior’s good side through consistent flattery and even come on as kind and helpful to their peers – especially the newer employees. However, if you don’t provide the right amount of attention, these bullies can quickly turn on you.

Attention seekers are often overly dramatic and relate everything to something that’s going wrong in their own lives to gain sympathy and control. These bullies also have a tendency to coax personal info out of new employees – only to use it against them later. See # 1.

#6 The Delusional Wannabe

This is an employee who sees himself or herself as absolutely indispensable and expects recognition for everything. But DWs aren’t usually very good at their jobs. To compensate, these bullies spend a majority of their time more competent workers and looking for areas of skilled workers’ performance to complain about.

DWs will demand that everything is done their way – even when there are better ways of doing things. Because they’re automatically opposed to others’ ideas, they’ll do everything in their power to prevent changes to their work processes. People leaders with this trait often have a high rate of staff turnover. A DW who makes it to middle management or higher likely got their by latching on to a #8.

#7 The Narcissist Guru.

Generally, there’s nothing wrong with this bully’s work performance. In fact, it’s not unusual for an NG to be considered an expert in his or her own niche area. What these bullies offer in technical skill, however, they severely lack in emotional maturity.

NGs see themselves as being superior to their peers or the people that report to threm. As a result, they don’t consider how their actions will affect others, aren’t able to fathom the possibility that they can be wrong and don’t accept responsibility for their own actions. In addition, because these bullies feel as though they’re “above it all,” they don’t always feel compelled to follow the same rules as everybody else.

#8 The Sociopath

Intelligent, well-spoken, charming and charismatic, sociopaths are the most destructive bullies of all. Reason: They have absolutely no empathy for others, yet they are experts at manipulating the emotions of others in order to get what they want.

These bullies often rise to positions of power within the company, which makes them extremely dangerous. Sociopaths tend to surround themselves with a circle of lackeys who are willing to do their dirty work in exchange for moving up the ranks with them.

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People in Tech on this forum like to complain a lot. I think the culture problem in tech might not just be from the top. There is a problem showing up right here.

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Post ID: @2sst+1mLdTvPm

ROFLMAO: "Lets stop complaining and let's uplift one another, find solutions, and thrive together."

This website is called "the layoff" and you sound like an a--hat.

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Post ID: @1upn+1mLdTvPm

is there a TL;DR?

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Post ID: @1ayb+1mLdTvPm

I've noticed a recurring theme on this forum that I believe deserves a bit of discussion. It seems that a some posters here tend to complain excessively, and I believe it's important to address the potential consequences of “such neative behavior”. While expressing dissatisfaction or venting occasionally can be cathartic, an excess of complaints can negatively impact our lives in more ways than one. When one constantly complains, we risk losing focus. Complaining tends to consume our thoughts, leaving little room for positive and productive thinking. As a result, we may find ourselves stuck in a cycle of negativity, unable to effectively tackle the challenges we face. This loss of focus not only affects our own progress but also hampers our ability to engage and connect with others.

The "crying wolf" effect becomes a concern when complaints become our default mode of communication. by constantly expressing dissatisfaction we risk diluting the impact of our concerns. When people perceive us as complainers, they may start tuning us out, dismissing our genuine grievances along with the trivial ones, our complaints lose their potency and effectiveness, leading to a situation where our voices aren't taken seriously when it matters. When it matters the most.

All this complaining always as a netagive on our emotional well-being. Surrounding ourselves with negativity fosters a sense of being a loser. We start to internalize the negativity, and it becomes a self-perpetuating cycle. Constant complaining can drive others away, as no one wants to be around a person who radiates negativity. If we aspire to be promoted or build successful relationships, it's crucial to cultivate a positive aura that attracts others and fosters growth. It's essential to strike a balance between acknowledging legitimate concerns and maintaining a positive outlook. Instead of incessant complaining, let's explore alternative ways to address challenges and make improvements. Constructive criticism, for example, provides an avenue for expressing dissatisfaction while also offering potential solutions. By adopting this approach, we not only retain focus but also demonstrate our willingness to be part of the solution.

Needless to say: a positive attitude is crucial for personal growth and success. When we complain excessively, we not only drag ourselves down but also impact those around us. It's challenging for others to invest time and energy in relationships when they're consistently confronted with negativity. By maintaining a positive aura, we create an environment that fosters collaboration, innovation, and personal fulfillment. Yep, keep tryijng to express dissatisfaction but never forget that excessive complaining can undermine our focus, dilute the impact of our concerns, and erode our emotional well-being. Striking a balance between constructive criticism and a positive attitude… When we do that we can create an environment that enables personal growth, professional (and any other ) success,and meaningful relationships.

Lets stop complaining and let's uplift one another, find solutions, and thrive together

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Post ID: @1wuv+1mLdTvPm

People on this forum like to complain a lot, that's what I can tell you.

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