Stolen from LinkedIn from someone laid off 2 days before paternity leave.
Takeaway #1: Companies don’t exist to protect you or your interests. Companies function to protect themselves in service of their investors, which includes reducing costs (e.g., you). Don’t internalize that.
Takeaway #2: Being laid off is traumatic, y’all. It’s no secret that we need money to survive. In many ways, it can feel like a betrayal. You may feel like a failure (this is a lie). Honor those feelings. Give yourself space to grieve.
Takeaway #3: Negotiate your severance. Your anxiety or sense of defeat may have you thinking of just accepting whatever they offer. Don’t do that. Get a lawyer and push for what you want and need.
Takeaway #4: After you get that severance bag, if you can, give yourself space before jumping into the job market. Remember, grieve. Also, reflect on what you’ve learned, what you actually want to do, and the culture you want to work for.
Takeaway #5: Internalize that work is different now. We’re in a late-stage capitalist society. Companies aren’t making long-term bets on employees like that anymore. Treat yourself like the star you are. Look up every 18–24 months for the next gig. It’s okay to do so!