The poster of this topic may walk the halls of hospitals blaming the patients. Do, you? Do you draw moral inferences from disease? I remember the early 80's and some people were certain that "g-- cancer" was God's message on an immoral lifestyle. In reality it was a horrible disease that killed its victims. That point was driven home when children got "g-- cancer" through blood transfusions.
The complaints you read on this board are well earned by management. Follett was a company where employees loved their jobs. It isn't any longer. That nasty uncle, mentioned in a post, wasn't always nasty. At one point that nasty uncle motivated you to work harder and do better than you thought you could. That uncle credited you for the work and the initiative. Suddenly, the uncle was mean and drunk and flashing his junk at gatherings. He was chasing you (away). He struck people, He invited new friends over. They were disgusting. They abused the family. No one was safe and everyone was upset. That, extending the analogy offered, is what has happened. It's ugly. It hurts. This board is where people come to rant. That's all that's left.
Forget I wrote this. Just go to the hospital. Perhaps you'll find an oncology ward. Make fun of the ill and make fun of the hurt. It'll make you feel better.