Thread regarding Oracle Corp. layoffs

Bullying Personalities

I've met quite a few on this list. Had several managers in the sociopath category. I think some people would refer to this as narcissist also.

The 8 most common bully personalities

Anton Hout, founder of OvercomeBullying.org, identifies these eight bully types:

  1. The Screaming Mimi. This is the most easily recognizable type of workplace bully. Screaming Mimis are loud and obnoxious, and their abusive behavior is meant to berate and humiliate people. They thrive on the notion that others fear them.

  2. The Two-Headed Snake. To a co-worker’s face, this employee acts like a trusted friend or colleague. However, when the co-worker is out of earshot, this person will destroy his colleague’s reputation, stab him in the back and even take credit for his work.

  3. The Constant Critic. This bully’s goal is to dismantle other people’s confidence through constant – and often unwarranted – criticism. A critic will look for any possible flaw in someone’s work and labors tirelessly to kill that person’s credibility. Impeccable work? No problem: This type of bully isn’t above falsifying documents or creating evidence to make others look bad.

  4. The Gatekeeper. Every office has at least one employee who gets off on wielding his or her power over others – regardless of whether that power is real or perceived. Gatekeepers deny people the tools they need – whether it’s resources, time or information – to do their jobs efficiently.

  5. The Attention Seeker. This type of bully wants to be the center of the action at all times. They’ll try to get on their superior’s good side through consistent flattery and even come on as kind and helpful to their peers – especially the newer employees. However, if co-workers don’t provide the right amount of attention, these bullies can quickly turn on them.

Attention seekers are often overly dramatic and relate everything to something that’s going wrong in their own lives to garner sympathy and control. These bullies also have a tendency to coax personal info out of new employees – only to use it against them later.

  1. The Wannabe. This is an employee who sees himself or herself as absolutely indispensable and expects recognition for everything. But Wannabes aren’t usually very good at their jobs. To compensate, these bullies spend a majority of their time watching more competent workers and looking for areas of skilled workers’ performance to complain about.

Wannabes will demand that everything is done their way – even when there are better ways of doing things. Because they’re automatically opposed to others’ ideas, they’ll do everything in their power to prevent changes to their work processes.

  1. The Guru. Generally, there’s nothing wrong with this bully’s work performance. In fact, it’s not unusual for a Guru to be considered an expert in his or her own niche area. What these bullies offer in technical skill, however, they severely lack in emotional maturity.

Gurus see themselves as being superior to their co-workers. As a result, they don’t consider how their actions will affect others, aren’t able to fathom the possibility that they can be wrong and don’t accept responsibility for their own actions. In addition, because these bullies feel as though they’re “above it all,” they don’t always feel compelled to follow the same rules as everybody else.

  1. The Sociopath. Intelligent, well-spoken, charming and charismatic, sociopaths are the most destructive bullies of all. Reason: They have absolutely no empathy for others, yet they are experts at manipulating the emotions of others in order to get what they want.

These bullies often rise to positions of power within the company, which makes them extremely dangerous. Sociopaths tend to surround themselves with a circle of lackeys who are willing to do their dirty work in exchange for moving up the ranks with them.

This is from http://www.hrmorning.com/8-workplace-bully-personality-types/

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Somewhere someone mentioned people getting in trouble by listing examples from this site to point out problems on an employee survey. They were told the survey was anonymous.

Be careful what you do with this information. In my experience employee surveys are never really anonymous. What I have had happen is the information and comments are given to the manager of the group, and they can figure out from the comments who is likely who. So be careful where you repeat things.

I have posted information just to inform people. I just want people to understand that they can't necessarily trust their manager or even the directors above their manager. I just want people to be aware that other people can pretend to be nice, they can lie behind your back, work with others to sabotage you, etc. All to advance themselves or their managers.

Oracle is a very stagnant company. No real growth or places for people to advance up the management chain. Advancement often means cutting out the competition and some people are willing to do that to anyone.

Just be aware there are some real scumbags in the world, and they often look friendly to start with.

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to @S7ZXDbE-3dme

You need to realize that Oracle is a company with 120K employees. Even TK's org alone has 35K employees. Out of that, there are multiple opportunities for people to experience bad managers and bad employees.

You can't really assume anything about who is posting what on here. Lots of people who are unhappy with their experience at Oracle.

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I worked for a sociopath like this:

The Sociopath. Intelligent, well-spoken, charming and charismatic, sociopaths are the most destructive bullies of all. Reason: They have absolutely no empathy for others, yet they are experts at manipulating the emotions of others in order to get what they want.

These bullies often rise to positions of power within the company, which makes them extremely dangerous. Sociopaths tend to surround themselves with a circle of lackeys who are willing to do their dirty work in exchange for moving up the ranks with them.

This guy had a bunch of thugs, dumb--shovels, working for him. They would bring in other people to write an application for them, then sabotage and attack the person until they left, leaving them with something they could say they had written.

The guy at the top was a real slimebag, but you didn't know that when you first met him. Looked and spoke like a real manager, but wasn't. He had no idea how to manage anything, but he was great at underhanded schemes and manipulating his thugs. He looked like the nicest guy on earth until you got to know him. I suspect he's got the VP above him completely fooled.

You would think that some of the thugs would get wise to the guy after a while, but they aren't picked by the sociopath for their intelligence. They are just dumb thugs who he can easily manipulate.

One thing he did was to have fake "get-togethers". He'd often invite someone from outside to see how great he treated his team. New people would think they were in a great place and work hard to write code that would later be taken. They often played word-games, but the answers are given before the get-together, to whichever thug he wanted to make look smart. It was all fake.

Fake, fake, fake. This sociopath says he is always looking for new talent in his own talent profile. That's because he is looking for s---ers to write code for his thugs.

Sick, sick man and a sick, sick bunch of incompetent weirdos working for him.

Watch out for guys like this.

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Post ID: @4ejm+S7ZXDbE

you keep posting and cross posting the same sheet again and again.

what does this have to do with layoffs? no one cares.

go seek some counseling.

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Post ID: @3dme+S7ZXDbE

Yeah, gaslighting is a big one, they should add that to the list.

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Post ID: @3xxs+S7ZXDbE

Keep your microaggressions to yourself bro.

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Post ID: @1vdk+S7ZXDbE

They forgot:

The Gaslighter

The ones that eff with you and make you question your sanity.

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Post ID: @1yel+S7ZXDbE

Boring

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