Try to go easy on the hardware folks. Imagine if it had been you who had let your skills wane as the tech industry left you in the dust, cowering in an obsolete, commoditized and irrelevant niche, with no other job prospects to fall back on. Try to imagine being no more skilled than a used car salesman or retail employee, where no education or leadership ability was needed, and servers could be configured and purchased through automated on-line systems, with absolutely no technical savvy or human assistance required. If it were you, and you were trapped in a dead-end professional career in a market that no one cared about any longer, you would feel like you were in a living nightmare, with no recourse except to wait for the axe to fall.
So even if becoming a dinosaur were all due to your own lack of ability to remain relevant, your inability to adapt, and your status as a “B” or “C-Team” player, your life would really s.u.c.k wouldn’t it?