Like many other former long term employees, I check out this site to see what the current gripes are. Most of the topics are no different than the day I left the company, but of course there are always some new ways the company is trying to stick it to you. So why are you still there? Can any of you name something that the company has done that has made a positive impact on your career or life? Of course there are some with basically do nothing jobs that are living their best life, but most of you suffer through a job you absolutely hate. So why are you staying?
Loyalty to the company? Wake up. The company doesn't care about you.
Loyalty to your coworkers? This one might sting. If you leave the company, you might hear from a coworker or two for a couple weeks or months. After that. they'll stop reaching out to you just like you've done with the coworkers that left before you. It's probably not personal. It's just the way things go.
Fear of the unknown? Now this is one that I can respect because that is what kept me with the company much much longer than I should have been. However, I'm here on this Tuesday morning to tell you to take that leap of faith. Instead of spending time on this site griping about this horrible employer, update your resume, browse indeed, network, etc. If you end up at a new company that sucks just as bad as BNYM, move on again. The days of loyalty to a company paying off passed generations ago. Job hop until you find a company that doesn't make you feel miserable every day.
Staying at a company that you hate is no way to live. Take the leap!