I've made Fidelity the priority over my family so many times I'm ashamed to admit it. What did I get in return? An "attaboy" and more work. I was hoping my hard work would be rewarded in a way that'll help me provide better for my family, but I was wrong. Well, I'm done giving my all and I'm done making this place my priority. From now on, I'll give back exactly what I get, and that's not all that much.
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Just stay woke y’all and spout the D&I bs if you want to make it here, or be a minority.
I was in a similar position before I left. I was a long time employee... Giving the firm 50-60 hrs week, with that carrot of more share awards being dangled, and more responsibility without more resources.
I had a come to Jesus moment with my life to realize Fido wasn't worth it. Jumped to a competitor, and have been better because of it. Total comp took a drop, but who cares, no longer have to fear the kn--e...
After reading your story, I'd say it's definitely time to swap roles at Fidelity even if it's strictly a lateral move. It's easy to get 'stale' in a role at Fidelity. Unfortunately, it's also a bad time to try and advance at Fidelity if you don't fit their new woke DEI profile. Sad but very true. Lastly, make sure you use ALL your allotted paid time off. Spread it out over the course of the year and give yourself a mental health day to spend with your family now and then. I wish you the best!
I’d like to believe there was actionable feedback you could use to land the next opportunity, but I won’t hold my breath. I’ve been there before myself.
Everyone’s A effort should go towards doing work that they can see helping them grow and be even more marketable. Building the resume… if it benefits Fidelity that’s cool, but it should def benefit you. Good luck! I’m rooting for you all!
Victor Frankl 101. You might not be able to change your circumstance, but you have control what goes on between your ears. Internal locus of control. You got this!
I’m there as well. Recently applied for (and was passed on) for three jobs that I was imminently qualified for. Some doubts in my mind that a fourth white male was going to be promoted to a management group consisting of three other white males, so the last one was probably a long shot, though I was qualified.
Over the years, I have gone above and beyond. Helping others and lending my expertise. Then when it comes to me needing something, I get passed. Fine. So be it. You had an A student effort, now you get a C student effort. Punch the clock, do what it is expected, but you can forget anything beyond that.
Just remember, if you died tomorrow, the company would function without a hiccup. That goes for everyone, including Abby. But more importantly, all of us have limited time. Use it wisely.
I, too, need to find an outside hobby.
Sorry to hear about your experience, mine has been and incredibly rewarding experience and career.
Perhaps using the school reimbursement benefit is a consideration? Get upskilled on a subject of value then find a department (or another company) that will appreciate your abilities and commitment to the organization.