Thread regarding Bank of New York Mellon Corp. layoffs

Is there a solution other than quitting?

I am so overwhelmed that I can no longer bear it. I have never been a bitter person, but I am under so much stress that I am becoming very frustrated and bitter.

Just when I think that it’s finally enough and they won’t try to add more to my plate, no, they add more.

I wonder if there is any solution to this other than to leave?

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Post ID: @OP+1e3h9Phe

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Welcome to BNY.

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Post ID: @6rnh+1e3h9Phe

Start the process to move on. Takes about three months of working for yourself to get your resume updated, some networking and interviews. Other firms are taking top-talent from BNYM in droves. Recruiters know this and are looking for good people like you. Get on Linked In if you aren’t already and change your setting to indicate you are open to opportunities. You will feel better once you land a new gig knowing you took control over a miserable situation. Good luck.

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Post ID: @5pej+1e3h9Phe

I've been there. Once most of the work is getting done and no one is complaining then management do not care that you are way over worked. You will not get any thanks or reward continuing like that.
Try to move team, go out on stress leave, engineer a layoff or failing those then quit. It's not worth the stress and damage to your physical and mental health.

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Post ID: @3rjv+1e3h9Phe

Quit and don't regret it!

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Post ID: @1mfm+1e3h9Phe

Claim insanity and check yourself into Bellevue. Log rrrm disability!

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Post ID: @1mns+1e3h9Phe

Just prioritize your work or have your boss do it. Then do the work you can do and don't worry about the things that don't get done. If your boss mentions it tell them you didn't have time. That's what I've been doing the last 8 years. The only hard part is dealing with things they don't think are a priority when you know it will make tons of work down the road if you don't get it done.

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Post ID: @1uai+1e3h9Phe

Engineer a layoff with the advice here could stain your career. Walk away with integrity

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Post ID: @1rkb+1e3h9Phe

I’m sorry. You sound like you feel the way I did. You have three options.

  1. Leave. There are so many jobs out there. It takes time because there are also a lot of applicants.
  1. Engineer a layoff. Depending on your time there this could be a great option. It’s what I did. It went swimmingly! How do you do this? It will depend on your circumstances. For me I became a thorn in my managers and his managers side by pushing back and calling them out on things witnessed and experienced.
  1. Do both and see if you can make the January layoff pool while also getting your self ready to start interviewing and exploring other options.

Don’t let the place turn you bitter as I did. Life is too short and there are far better places to work than here. I’m so glad I made the cut!

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Post ID: @1kfs+1e3h9Phe

No, you need to leave.

I never thought I would be happy again. My 2 years at this company was the lowest point in my life yet.

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