While in it, you are always stressed and partially unhappy despite not being overworked. You suffer silently for years and decades but it pays decently so you make do and succumb to it’s toxicity.
Then by force of hand, you are surplused and have no choice. You panic and go through all sorts of emotional roller coaster. You have never been more extremely anxious about the future. You start looking for a new relationship wondering will someone ever settle for you like T did as well you settling for T.
But once you are surplused, you accept peace. The severance covers you financially so you can search for a new relationship in peace. You find happiness in other things that you were blindfolded to while in with T. You find yourself again.
Once you are whole, you are courted by others that want you instead of just putting up with you. You accept a new relationship. The new relationship treats you like a human being. You realize all the time and stress you wasted with T. Sure it’s a little more work but you feel like an equal and the trade off is worth it.
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