Thread regarding Wells Fargo & Co. layoffs

The abuser playbook

The abuser playbook. There's a pattern to abuse at work. Here’s how it works:

  • Workplace bullying typically begins when one employee, who is generally insecure and/or jealous, is threatened by the competence or demeanor of another employee. The bully targets an unsuspecting employee to minimize and/or eliminate the perceived threat the employee poses to them. Bullies use persistent psychological abuse to control the narrative. They try to convince the employee they are incompetent. They try to convince others the employee is incompetent.
  • In toxic work environments, when employees report psychologically abusive behavior to the proper workplace authorities, those authorities willfully ignore the complaints. Employers are not liable for psychologically abusive behavior, nor do they want to be. The employer misleads the unsuspecting employee to believe they have a legitimate complaint process to remedy the problem.
  • The employer fails to alter the employee's work environment. The employer doesn’t remove the stressor. The emboldened bully continues to harass and abuse the target without consequence or deterrent. The complaint process is unnecessarily prolonged.
  • The unsuspecting employee voluntarily leaves, dies, or is fired, succumbing to the silent ki-ler stress of the work environment. There is significant physical, mental, and emotional injury as well as severe economic harm. Game over. The bully wins. Their perceived competition is gone. The employer wins. Their perceived threat of liability is gone. The unsuspecting employee had done nothing to provoke either.
  • Trauma upon trauma. When the employee realizes the institutional tampering with their health and livelihood, forcing them off the payroll to avoid liability, trauma upon trauma occurs. The employee further realizes there is no legal recourse for any of it.

Who’s picking up the tab for the long-term health care of thousands of unemployed citizens and basic needs costs? You are: the taxpayer. And you have been for decades.

This is too important to stay buried in replies. The OP is @ftx+1shb9dlg.

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Engineering managers with WITCH (Consulting background) and offshore backgrounds bully reports all the time.

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@OP+1sibmyg6

OP, you forgot to mention RTO. on this board, RTO seems to be the linchpin to everyone's misery

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Post ID: @pps+1sibmyg6

The bully in our team bullies even our boss. I wish boss had the ba--s to out him on the next layoff list but it will not happen. I have experienced other bullies before at WF and the best way to deal with them is to play along with them and fluff their egos and hope they will not make your life miserable and pick another victim. WF will not do anything.

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Post ID: @ban+1sibmyg6

Yawn.

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Post ID: @vmh+1sibmyg6

True!
I am one of those unsuspected employees (but aware as of past months). It's horrible! Still here though, trying to focus on what I'm good at, doing what is right. It's very distracting, very unhealthy (mentally and physically impacting me, and very miserable. Why not leave you ask....it's just not that easy, unfortunately.

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