(tl:dr version at the bottom)
She knew he was married; he informed her the first time she was inappropriate with him, but it just fueled her advances.
Thankfully, I have a husband who understands what a lasting marriage entails and respects our commitment to one another and has been upfront with me about her behavior. He just wasn’t sure how to address it with her any further without actually calling her out as a whore; he was embarrassed for her. My husband is more tactful than I am; You ARE a WHORE.
You were looking at my husband, a man that demonstrated he’s capable of being in a stable, committed relationship, someone who’s responsible, trustworthy and respected and you thought your wanton behavior could entice him. I’m quite positive you have prior experience secretly bedding your co-workers since the audacity and planning of your acts isn't that of a "first timer" and your reputation in the company isn't that of a tramp - yet.
When my husband sees you, he doesn’t see god's gift to men, as you obviously see yourself; instead, he’s appalled at the type of person that you have shown yourself to be.
My husband dreads having to be around you even though his job requires it. He’s unsure of what embarrassing behavior you're going to do next. He never followed up on any of your advances, did you not get the hint? He didn’t call you when you slipped him your number, he didn’t follow up on your invitation to lunch while you were inappropriately touching him, he didn’t take you up on your offer “to go down” on him..oh i could go on, but you know what you’ve offered. He didn’t know how to confront you about it until you overstepped that last boundary on Friday, and boy I wish I could have been there to see your face.
You have a failed marriage and you have no respect for others who are married. You wanted my husband to risk his family and marriage for your selfish narcissistic fun. You care nothing about him, no regard to what he would have lost as long as you got your cheap thrills running around town secretly getting your holes filled. You envisioned my husband and you to be a secret pair, having your own secret life in your own secret world.
You didn’t expect the rejection, did you? When you entered his office and attempted to close the door behind you and touched my husband in such an intimate and familiar way, you were completely blindsided by the rejection that he handed to you, weren’t you?
Hopefully, you will end your advances as of Monday and not try to embarrass yourself even further by trying to show him what he "missed out on." To be honest, you demonstrated to him the type of woman he doesn't want in his life. Thank you for reinforcing the fact that we are lucky to have each other.
I only hope the sting of rejection didn’t hurt too much and distract you from your duties of being a mother of a young child. Hopefully you’ll reconsider your moral values and work on being a respectable woman, a role model, for the sake of your son. No child wants to grow up knowing his mother is a whore.
*tl:dr version: Be on the lookout people. Those working next to you in your cubicle may be the secret whore of Conroe NOV, looking for her next married man to suck off during her lunch. While people are worried about lay-offs, she's worried about her next lay.
**Warning: There may be a continuation to this post depending on future indiscretions.
-I love you hubby.