You think you have a leverage? Let's see it from a game theory perspective: right now, you have a job offer and you want to make best use of it. You have two options:
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take it and go - you risk a bit, but if you've done your due diligence, you can only win (the offer is better that your job now, or you wouldn't take it). Outcome: WIN, YOU'RE OUT
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you go to your boss and tell him "i have an offer"
Now the boss has two options:
2.1. he says "take it, I can't help". You're at 1, Outcome: WIN, YOU'RE OUT
2.2 He says "don't take it, I need you". But no direct counter-offer. After that, if you stay, you're an idiot. If you believe he's gonna show gratitude later, you're an idiot. He knows now that he can't really count on you long term without an incentive, so he will start to reduce his dependency on you and look for replacement asap. Outcome: YOU'RE OUT, LOSE IF STAY
2.3 He says "don't take it, I need you. I will give you a promo if you stay". You take the bite and stay. Turn down the offer, loose an opportunity. Next focal the game continues: you might get a promo or some shabby excuse.
2.3.1 - You get your promo: it means your manager probably needs you - (as of now!!). If he agreed the deal means he has some dependency on your expertise - but I hope you noticed that Intel is not a growth company, so there is no room for promotions. You leveraged your initial position, forced his hand, he had to do what you wanted, but now he got you - it is his turn, and you don't have the leverage any more.
He's gonna take care that you'll work your a-- off to keep your new position, or you'll get an "IR" which throws you out. Best case, you'll get a couple of "successful" in a row - as we know, same outcome. The chances to be promoted again in the next 3 years are near to 0. If you're after the severance, and you can get a good offer later, fine for you. The best possibility: get the promo, and prepare to leave in 2-3-4 years. Outcome: YOU'RE OUT (with possible severance), LOSE
2.3.2- "the shabby excuse" You declined your offer, but at the next focal you notice that you have an a--hole as manager. Believe me, this is not a remote possibility. Saw that. You lose big time. Your manager knows that moment that you've quit internally, knows that you hate him, and expects you to leave any time. He won't trust you any more, he's not gonna assign you any more interesting work. If you continue to stay, you're dead wood and you've lost your honor. Best outcome is to be IR'ed and get some severance. Start looking for a job the next minute. Outcome: YOU'RE OUT (but with possible severance), LOSE
I hope you noticed the common pattern: the moment you've got a better offer somewhere else, YOU'RE OUT ! You have quit already. You can play the severance game, if you consider it to be worth, but your actual job is history. If you look at the top management, this game happens all the time. Once you forced your promo, you're out.