Thanks for the insight. You are so right. It seems so unnatural to receive anything from SHC.
This morning at church I found out that I can deliver with meals on wheels as a volunteer 2 days a week. It's warm meals for elderly and my husband decided that he will go with other volunteers to the Bridge Ministry once day a week. That is for homeless that we could all be one step away from and see if he can help them with anything at all. My husband is a Vietnam Vet. himself and will know how to help. OK, two days into the first day of the rest of my life is looking OK now. It's all good and Thank you for all the positive posts for us that had to be thrown under the bus. SHC=stupid is as stupid does.