That is in large part the problem with so many posters. They have adopted a fatalistic outlook as to their future and accept no responsibility for what happens in their lives. They know their lives would be better if they were working elsewhere, but they are paralyzed into inaction by some flaw in their psychological make up. How else do you explain so many posters who are clearly miserable in their positions, yet lack the will to make a change. At the same time these posters pray that their store closes, so that they are forced into change. This robs them of the opportunity to take control of their destiny, is dysfunctional in the extreme, and is often the result of a sad family dynamic. Break the cycle, take back your dignity, and take a proactive approach to improving your lives.