When I got laid off, it was the last time I allowed a job to interfere with life. No longer was I going to become a slave to a master. I lost so much important family time working all of those extra hours, weekend call outs, late night meetings, canceling vacations with the promise they will make it right. It never happened. Appraisals and reviews were always high. All that any company cares about is how much are they paying you, can they get 80% of the work while paying 60% of your salary to someone else, and what type of bad publicity do they get (which is extremely minimal in all cases).
Like you with Netflix, I am with a much better employer. About 3 months in a project was behind schedule a little. My manager came to me instead of me coming to his office. His first comment is that he was sorry for having to do this. He said he needed me to move to another project for a week to see where I can help close some gaps. It would require 10 hours of over time. Yes, 10 hours of over time was all and he apologized for before even asking me. Because of how the operate and to control any types of favoritism or unfair practices, all hours worked have to be counted. Either they pay you for the overtime (I am salaried) or they give comp time. I had an extra 1.25 days added to my vacation total for the year.